Well, since Dr 6th Sense qualifies in his own category of "crazed" and not really MLC, I might chime in for kicks.

He is definately an extreme drop-out. I literally don't exist, and he will go to great lengths to avoid me and any contact with any part of our formerly joined lives.

Now, when pushed about his lack of contact, he points to my actions and says "Always cut me out of her life completely, went incognito, and never tried to contact me." I did that out of his request and his repeated rejection to my attempts to contact him. And, eventually, self-preservation kicked in.

The sudden and extreme abandonment was really hard at first, only partially. Partially, it was a relief b/c the prior 9 months of living with him had been a pure hell since the bomb dropped.

While the rejection hurt then, unbearably, I see now that ultimately he was (and still is) very toxic for me. Toxic b/c when I hear his voice or see him, it still yanks me back to thinking he is the same person I once knew. And, to take what he says/does now at that level is dangerous and crazy. It was like going cold turkey from some horrible drug that deluded you. Considering this, I am grateful for the extreme nature of his drop-out. Also, it protected me from witnessing or experiencing his actions and out-of-control life now.

I think I can safely say that I will never hear from, speak to, nor see this man ever again in my life.