When I attended my devastated sister's D hearing and the D was officially granted the idiot judge said "Well for SOME of you this is a sad day, but for SOME of you it's the happiest day of your life" and I turned off whatever else that moron said. My sister was sobbing the whole time and the divorce was granted en masse, to about ten couples....like a party, or witnesses, or whatever. I wrote a letter to the Bar of Florida mentioning that the comments were the most insensitive I've heard from a member of the bench.
It isn't about being "happy" about the divorce, it's about GAL and creating happiness from this day forward. Geez, who could have been happy? I mean, I'd be sad even if I were leaving an abusive marriage b/c it sucks to divorce or have a crappy M when you have kids...even if you don't, come to think of it. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016