well said FIB, and Jeff, good for you.

When I attended my devastated sister's D hearing and the D was officially granted the idiot judge said "Well for SOME of you this is a sad day, but for SOME of you it's the happiest day of your life" and I turned off whatever else that moron said. My sister was sobbing the whole time and the divorce was granted en masse, to about ten couples....like a party, or witnesses, or whatever.
I wrote a letter to the Bar of Florida mentioning that the comments were the most insensitive I've heard from a member of the bench.

It isn't about being "happy" about the divorce, it's about GAL and creating happiness from this day forward. Geez, who could have been happy? I mean, I'd be sad even if I were leaving an abusive marriage b/c it sucks to divorce or have a crappy M when you have kids...even if you don't, come to think of it.
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change