MCC, Expect the curve balls and keep working on detaching. Look at the positives in what you described above. You were talking, relaxed, comfortable. This is what you need to keep doing and keep doing consistently so that she will see only good things. When she throws the curveball at you, just step out of the way. I know it hurts inside, but don't let her see that.
Forgive me for a moment while I hijack your thread...
Last night I went out with friends to a bar. Had a good time, but everyone left @ 9 PM. I was planning on staying out much longer, so I did something I've never done before. I left that bar and went to another by myself. Didn't know anyone there, just sat down at the bar and ordered a drink. Not two minutes pass and a woman starts up a conversation with me. Next thing I know, she has invited me to sit with her two other very attractive friends. How's that for an ego boost? I ended up talking / dancing with them for the rest of the night and closed the bar. Had a GREAT night!!
I told my W about what happened (I don't want to keep secrets), and she was shocked that I had done something so out of character. Not sure how this will change her attitude. Hoping she sees that I'm not just going to wait around forever.
