I did not mention it yet. it's a tough call. If you look back on my earlier posts, you will see that my W. is a bundle of raw nerves. Anything I did, and still do is like pouring salt on that bundle of nerves.
You don't have to mention it at all! Wait for her to tell you. That would be a 180 for you! My earlier post was meant to show you a 180, too....."acting as if" you were happy that she was fixing up the basement. Wouldn't that surprise her??? (you can ignore the money part of my suggestion).
Can you communicate with the kids without involving your wife? I never understood how one could "go dark" when children are involved. It never has worked for me!
