If H wants a hug, then go with it. Follow his lead for contact. However, if he starts to get a little nasty, you have to be the bigger person and stay nice.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9