Matlida, I did not mention it yet. it's a tough call. If you look back on my earlier posts, you will see that my W. is a bundle of raw nerves. Anything I did, and still do is like pouring salt on that bundle of nerves. She can turn that off with certain people, but most people who are close to her, know what she's like. This is probably another brick in the load, much like when I asked D17 if mom was dating.
mk. There is no legal separation done. we never did that. Tomorrow, I'll write about "forcing the person who ants it to file". I'm way too tired tonight to even think coherently!