I have no advice as I am a LBS that has been having sex with my MLC S. I too would very much like to hear peoples perspective on this. I don't know if it is right or wrong.
I do feel it keeps a connection open, but is it a good connection?
It is disrespectful to the LBS if there is a OW/OM.
It really hurts when the WAS is detached during and after the act.
If they initiate I think maybe it is okay, maybe.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!