Penny,
Your H is a very sad and mixed up man. I don't know much about MLC but it definitely seems that is what he is experiencing.

It sounds like the OW is a real winner. Let them move in together, let him see how green the grass is. I think he will find out soon that it is very brown and full of weeds. It's amazing that he can't see OW's faults. Come on, what kind of mother has 4 kids that do not live with her? The way our court systems are today, judges hardly ever grant custody to the father unless the mother is very very unfit.

I'm so sorry Penny, but right now it's seems to you that you are the loser, but believe me, you are the only one who thinks that. Your H is definitely the loser.

((((((((Penny)))))))))




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon