Originally Posted By: morgan
mk, you have sooo much going for you. you will be fine, I have no doubt, no matter what happens.

interesting question. what do you think divorce will solve?


This sounds weird but it will make it better for H to have a girlfriend. Is that the craziest thing you ever heard? I just think it is inaappropriate for a married man to move in so quickly with a practical stranger. At least get a divorce first and then move in. I know that this is how affairs operate. They are not like normal relationships. This is not like my H at all. He never even lived with a woman before we becme engaged. And he never cheated on anyone for he only had two girlfreinds and we were both like his best friends first. I am just sick and tired of the humiliation and gossip as it pertains to my job, my family, my kids at school. At least with a divorce he does not have to sneak around and be a creep. He can just be a single man who looks disgusting next to his girlfriend who looks like she could be his daugher.

Also Homer says to file. Date and file. Make the first strike and this will stop the divorce. Although I think that would have worked in the beginning but not now.


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M:10 R:23 years
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