I think as separated folks most of us are also sharing power of attorney and community property. It is a horrible feeling to lose trust int he person that we need to trust with everything:our homes, our money, our livelihood and most importantly the kids. It is hard to knowwe cannot control or at least agree. Have you filed for a legal separtion? I have not. I keep putting it off. I gave him a six month time limit and in that time I have not even seen a glimmer of hope, not a single ray. I do not even think there wouldbe a miracle to even erase all of this ugliness. At least there is still hope in your sitch. When you come home you will be able to show all your 180s!


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."