Sometimes these times with our spouses feel like avalanches but we can just let it ride. Know wherever we land we are better off for it. I do not think any person I know thinks Stevie Nicks needed Lindsey. She went on to make more beautiful music on her own and with other partners. She is truly an inspiration.
I know you will do great. Don't think it is over. Stay postive. You don't have to fight for anything anymore. Let fate take its hand and trust that everything will be as it should be. Don't think of him as the man you married. He is a different man now. That does not mean he will not become a better man after some slate cleaning but for now he is a different man that only deserves your polite conversation and attention. Think that it will make him feel better if it goes well. I know you have already sacraficed so much but you are here and so you are the one holding this family together. Stay strong and as he said, stay smiley. It is your best look afterall so let that image be burned into his brain for future reference. He will be thinking , My beautiful serene strong wife and mother of my children did not even get mad at me in what used to be our living room. She will always be the love of my life and how can I ever make myself good enough to get her back???
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
