It's her that sleeps with anything. Goes on lots of lesbian dates etc. I wonder how many couples she's caused trouble with there.
He used to say that his anti-depression meds made him impotent, but he's been off those for a year. He was never aggressive in the bedroom and his idea of foreplay was to lie on his back and wait. Thats it. It made sex just another chore for me to do. So, both of us being stubborn, we'd both wait. I admit it was my fault, I should have put more effort into it, but resentment raises its ugly head and it begins to be a standoff. I have tried to interest him since then, but nothing so far. There were other factors as well, the usual, him not helping with housework, and when he was depressed and not caring about anything, it was I who had to meet the bailiff at the door and deal with banks etc. It was extremely stressful for me, but that is not recognized by him. When he was depressed he turned to OW, not me.
