Thanks everyone. very good suggestions. Thanks H. Yes, but when he comes to see me, then it will be a very good day. He's coming to see them.

I am going to be finding things to do while he is here so that he doesn't feel like I am hovering but I also don't want him to feel like I am ignoring him. So need to find a middle ground. I know how important it is for his time here to go well.

LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA