I'm sorry I have not got over here sooner. I've been tied up in a discussion over on SSM with Corri about Mr. IC. She's the best ! I have to agree with her on your situation with the AD's. Don't mess around with things like that, especially with you just coming off of the surgery and all the emotions you must be going through.
I can't talk long as I'm already going to be late for work. I've read some of your convos with IC and it's ok with me if you want to smack him around a little