One thought Luv, if he tries bringing up subjects you don't want to talk about or you think would create conflict, is to smile and be nice and tell him that you would like some 'Happy' time together to remind you both of the 'awsome' times and can you talk about the other stuff another time.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength