i think this is where you draw the line.

you could tell him that if he wants you there, it will have to be that day, or nothing. That you are his wife, and you dont deserve to be treated like that.


If you dont hear from him, or if he wont choose over the phone: You might even choose to show up, and make him choose between you two in person.

if he chooses her, then go 100% dark on him.
see what he has to say for himself in 3 months.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle