He's going to have to do a bit more than simply move back. I even asked him before he left what he's ever done to work on us and he said "I'm here!". No kidding. He really did.
oh, i'm not surprised.
some people seem to think that just "being there", constitutes their part of working on a marriage. Sadly, it's up to the "other side", to stick to telling them, "no that's not work. If you just 'showed up' to your job, for 8 hours a day, do you think you'd get paid? No. 'work', means you actually have to DO SOMETHING"
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
