Sandi: you sound just like my wife, in your description of your behaviour with online OM.
The big differences being... she's now been through 5 of them now, rather than choose to stop doing it any more, after #1 Plus she enjoys phone time with them. And seems to like keeping some of the "old ones" around, even after she has moved on to a new primary one
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
