Ok, here we are. the big 3 month time. Time for you to figure out what you want, and whether you're going to recommit to being exclusively us, to being "married", and living together again.
Hahahahahaahahahahahaahahaha ! Good one!! Ha ha!! I need not ask this question; especially since I know the answer and do not want to hear it yet.
The rest of it--I actually kinda like it. Is it really wise. though? Wouldn't it possibly fall under the pursuing catagory?
What if he says "no, that's not it"? Well, I guess that lets me off the hook for feeling like this is MY fault. (I know it's not ALL my fault; I'm just saying I wouldn't have to beat myself up about it.)
And what if he says "yeah-that is a big deal to me", then what? Ask him to not go out on dates with anyone else for a few months? Thank him for his honesty and let him know I have a membership somewhere?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
