Thanks so much, Morgan. It's not about winning, really. I think I'm just done with trying. I have given and given and I'm feeling so empty from it. You start to feel a little crazy because all of this you've worked so hard at preserving wasn't really there in the first place and is he REALLY all that? *sigh*

I'm SO getting that book. Because like it or not I'm going to have to be the mature grownup and bring up our (including his) issues.

I sound harsh right now. And I know it. I was fine until I saw him last night and he did all this conciliatory crap like he was doing me a huge favor. Seems like we all do well when our H's aren't around...and flub up when they are...


Me (36) H (42)
M (12)
S-8 D-5 SS-18
D Day (PA) 12/02
S 10/03 R 1/03
S again 9/07
I choose Joy.