More complicated than I imagined...

[Michael Mc C]

My thoughts exactly husband! If nothing else, we here at DB.com have been able to find where our responsiblities lie in the meeses we're in. We're addressing these and are making our changes for the betterment of ourselves as well as our families. We've put up a damn good fight to make this thing of ours, something we truly believe in, work.

Why, after all the pain and effort and doubt we have gone through would we EVER want things to go back to the way they were? I have grown (still plenty to do) and I have learned (ditto) - it's time for me to reap the rewards of a mature relationship. Hope she wants to come along for the ride.