going to recommend crucial conversations again. wow, do I see where it comes in handy with any kind of confrontation. it makes me see things so clearly...and helps me keep my focus on my goals, not on being right or wrong. very easy to get caught up in that, i know I do. doesn't mean you have to be a doormat, far from it, but it does mean that you can easily lose sight of what you really want if your focus is on "winning."
as for jumping up and down, far from it. h and i would have a hard row to hoe before he would be able to come home, first of all. there would be a LOT that would need to be resolved first, particularly because of the kids...I will not toy with their emotions. I will not be casual about daddy coming or going, and until I know he is here and we are doing everything possible to heal and resolve our problems, I would not feel comfortable.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
