PS: DB doesnt "tell you what to do after the db'ing pays off". but MB does.

marriagebuilders.com proposes something like "4 principles for a great marriage".

they're not for everyone. but they might be for you.

but.. oh.. durn.. that would be you doing the book reading, etc. again ;\)

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle