He's on Match.com

[mkultra]

I think that being attracted to the person is very important and I recognize there are many different aspects that we are attracted to. If we are to base it on scientific mammalian impulse then yes health and fitness, ability to procreate, fetility, all that stuff seems very important. BUT I think we have seen many examples of WAH leaving very attractive women who they have conquered. And they just trade them in for various reasons. Of course sometimes our roles change in the course of a marriage. I feel that 99's H is looking for that new feeling of conquest. I hate to appeal to you 99 to play along with that game but it does seem like he is not interested in someone he has already conquered and perhaps if he had to pursue you it may peek his interest. Sounds so base and childish but so we have it. In my sitch, I just got so comfortable and really let myself go. It is so ironic that people pushed me into going into my 20th reunion saying I never looked better, even better than when I was young. I was warned to get back into shape after having kids and I thought , why when my H worships me just the way I am? So I thought. Separation and infidelity is a huge blow to the old ego.