Well, if he didn't like what I wore, why wait until years into the marriage to complain?
Incidentally...I actually did try stuff for him... Started wearing the VS, bought nice lingerie, even tried dying my hair. It's not like I minded.
BTW, xh had a history of 'comparing' me when he felt depressed. He has admitted this. Once in one of his moods, I could do nothing right. I remember being in the shower one time, when he was in hyper-[censored]-mode, and pouring conditioner out in my hand. He reached over for something, and my first thought was Great, he's going to tell me how to condition my own hair now! (Yes, at that point, I seriously considered moving out. He calmed down, and I did not.)
You probably got some of my own frustration at the constant criticisms.
Having said all that...I have no idea what his favorite outfit that I own is...makes me think I should ask...
