Good for you on the flirting! Keep it up and maintain the PMA. I flirt with everyone, smile, and tell anyone who asks that I'm doing well. After a while, you start to believe it...
Don't worry about the ex. What goes around comes around...I would suggest not emailing her again, nor contacting her in any fashion. If it's a $ or legal issue, let your lawyer handle it. Also please refrain from hearing gossip about her...kindly tell the "friend" that you'd rather not hear about your ex, then change the subject to something cheerful, like the Red Sox kicking Colorado's arse.
Time will help you my friend...keep smiling and keep flirting. I have been rewarded tenfold by filling my karma cup.
Me - 46 She - 36 Daughter - 10 Married 10 yrs 1st Bomb Date 12/17/06 (Merry Christmas!) D Bomb in January (Happy New Year!) Every other week custody of D10 She has OM who helped her walk away Divorced 07/05/07