aha.. but you implicitly acknowledge that if you WERE still married, then he'd have a say in it!
Well, that's not what I meant!!
What I was trying to do, was tell him to 'shove it' since I never liked hearing it all.
xh had this dorky habit of wearing socks with sandals. Even thong sandals. It looked stupid. (lol) Did I ever say anything? No. I figured he could wear whatever he wanted. A few times I said, "I'm stealing you for the night, it's my secret, I have xyz planned, so wear something like abc," but that was the most of it.
