E: I am really sorry this is happening. It just sucks. No 2x4s from me - only you know what you need to do. But I have to ask - is this really good enough for you? I honestly don't think so. Sweetie, I understand about the kids, totally, but look beyond that. Make sure you do what you need to do for yourself. Sounds like hubby just doesn't "get it".
It was through emails that I first found out about OW. I just stumbled on something that made me do a doubletake. Of course I got "deny, deny, deny" - they make you think that YOU are crazy. But this is how these things start. Just don't get sucked in.
Are you sure the baby is the ex BFs??? I don't know about you, but I' would get my head out of the sand and I would have him followed. I would want to know for sure but then I'd keep my cards to myself while I made my own plans. It might be time to sock some money in a safe place and be prepared for "just in case".
I have been thinking about you so much. Its nearly a year since you and Karen and I got together. I hope you continue to be safe.
