Mojo, To be clear is this the right interpretation?? I really don't see his "mental issue" problems (depression and/or whatever) as the main problem. I see his selfishness, childlike behavior, inability to be a stable financial figure, cruelness, insensitivity, anger, not being a true father figure to his kids, etc. as his problem. This additional issues of depression or whatever were things you felt badly for and the reason why you excused his p!ss-poor behavior as a father and husband. At least that's how I see it.
Well, let's not neglect the fact that I was also quite sexually attracted to the man for reasons that were valid yet not "good". That's why I describe him as candy with razor bits.
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Your 2bx's behavior after the breakup certainly clinched it for me!!
Isn't it kind of interesting that I was actually surprised about how happy I would be once he left and how badly he would behave once he knew it was really over? I guess I had a lot of self-doubt.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
