I totally understand the awkward part. I believe Michelle mentions not doing dinner, but instead things that cause you to do something like bowling, or even watching a movie where you don't have to talk at all. on seeing him texting. I'm sorry it still hurts. I totally understand. One thing you need to do is decide, was this one of my boundaries and is he stepping over it, and if he did, what are the consequences, and if he didn't really step over it, then you just have to get over it. not being mean, but you just don't allow it to hurt you...you choose not to be affected by it. Or at least you don't let them know your affected by it.
although I understand right now, your not exactly DBing anymore.
on deciding whether you do this very temporary or not, I think your just going to have to play it out. I don't think your going to really know until you do it. AND, if you make the room TOTALLY you, then if you do leave sooner than you planned, he'll have to deal with the room that would totally remind him of you, and I'm almost positive that he won't be over you as easy as you think.
I think the whole texting thing is like a drug for him. part of it, is because it's a new venue for communication for him (right?) and that's something that's mentioned somewhere on here. Then he's like a teenager slipping out at night w/o his parents knowing... except it's him contacting or seeing EAs w/o you knowing....
I'm glad you got to have a good convo with your dad. I did too, and that definitely helps with our outlook on men. And I bet you'll have lots of fun at the concert!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
