Ok, so I'm moving on over here. Brief explanation. Married 6 years. S 2.5yrs, D 5 months. H left middle of August 2007. I went away at the beginning of this week to have some time to myself after finding out about OW. She was not the reason he left. We had been talking for about 2 weeks before I found out about her and there was alot of R talk initiated by him. He flipped out when he found out I left. He stopped it with the OW that day. I'm back home now and he wants to work it out between us. I haven't seen him since I left Monday. He's not home from work yet. He has already invited me to go away for a weekend that is work related. They're putting us up in a hotel for the weekend.
So is there any advice any of you vets can give!? I'm trying not to be too enthusiatic about all this just yet. I've read DB and am in the middle of DR. I know it's going to be a long process, but I'm willing to go through with it. I want to. Thanks! I probably won't be able to check this until tomorrow because he has moved back home while I was away.

Last edited by Julz13; 10/26/07 09:39 PM.
Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


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