Hmmm...I just had another revelation while sitting here thinking of what he had just offered me by saying he wanted to do maintenance on my truck...he is a true Acts of Service Love Language man!!! And he has always been that way, bringing me coffee, painting my office while I was away, keeping up with all the housework and my son while I was in school!! Wow, I never realized that...But those things are not my love language so they never came to me as love symbols. I feel so enlightened now, what a concept. A 'Eureka!' moment. So in his own way he is now offering his love in a way I hadn't thought of before.

Hopefully he is reading the LL book and can soon try to want to talk about my LL. My head feels light now!

I feel like now that I should not go to happy hour and go home so he can pull LOVE maintenance on my truck. LOL

What do you all think??

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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