Hmm..

i would think that the main "lessons learned" from the past, would not be "no snooping", but "no more vacations without your husband"

I cant imagine why you would possibly divide your family like that. even the first time, let alone again, given all your past troubles.
If your sister knew about the problems 5 years ago, she's the one who should be getting the 2x4, for even suggesting such a trip without your husband.


If you bought travel insurance, I would say use it, to cancel your part of the trip as a "family emergency", and get your money back.

Last edited by Dom R; 10/26/07 08:57 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle