Trust

[Dom R]

I mentioned that I would want to be involved decisions concerning their future, but we both agreed that not every decision needed to be discussed.

doesnt sound like SHE agreed that you would be involved in decisions concerning their future. you might want to keep that in mind.

Sounds like she talked you into a "not every decision needs to be discussed", because she then will free to make decisions herself; and if you complain about it; "But you said we didnt have to discuss everything".


But at this point, i think it probably isnt worth bringing it up again. You have made it clear that you wont go along completely silently, so she no longer has that false impression. That's good.

So, i wish you well on continued improvements with your relationship with your wife.