Trust

[hiscott]

Ok, I may have just done something really stupid. W just called to ask if I wanted to take the kids to some children’s community theater tonight and went on to ask if I got her email from this morning. I said that I had and launched into "Couldnt this trust be a building block for rebuilding our marriage". She replied "I suppose". Good or bad this headed into a check of where we stand. She confirmed my feelings by stating that she is very happy with our current situation of being separated and that she is in no rush to divorce. Like myself, she is not completely clear about custody laws and options. She did say that she felt if we did go down that road that we both deserve to see the kids half of the time. I mentioned that I would want to be involved decisions concerning their future, but we both agreed that not every decision needed to be discussed. At that point, she said that since have not come to this yet, she would rather talk about something more upbeat. Unfortunately, I fell into a little sales job about how great of a guy I am. But, I caught myself before making a fool of myself.

Azhira, I think that you are right on. She meant to say how we are handling our current situation of being separated very maturely and that we both want the best for our kids.