What do I do with her?

[SueS]

Mike-

Welcome. I originally wanted to add a few things but then realized that all can be said (to this moment) has been said.

I'm so sorry that you had to come here, but lwb is SO right. We all come here to vent, cry...etc. and leave with a better feeling. I don't mean to be a smarta$$, but we also come here to laugh and lift our spirits too. I see it this way........

Your S is having an A:

Paying a Counselor - $125/hr.
Buying Self Help Books - $100+
Being able to get incredible support from people on the DB boards that you've never met and feeling better about things - Priceless!

Have a great day. Check on you soon.

SueS