I'm just catching up with your sitch and am sorry that you have been doing this for so long. W and I have been separated for ten months now and I dont think that she will ever pull the trigger. She has her cake and is eating it too. Unlike you, I dont like living alone and have not ever threaten to file for divorce. I'm focusing on my own personal growth and feeling more comfortable with being on my own. Who knows, maybe I will have the strength to suggest myself that we divorce and she will be shaken up a bit. But, for now I'm just hangin in limbo.
Do you plan on pushing the subject of filing?
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair