Sadly the relationship with the OP is just like any other relationship.

It has it ups and downs, as an LBS when it ends, you cannot be gleeful, and you have to understand that your spouse just went through a break-up.

That;s a f-ing hard balancing act.

Sad huh?

Why is she miserable? Man, I do not know. The guesses I would have are just guesses at best and worst.

There are many possible reasons why.

What you offered could just as true as any guess we could provide here.


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