Thanks SteveInTN, Catfan, and FLTC for your support. I havent responded so far and probably wont. I want to reply and ask if that trust could be a building block for rebuilding the trust in our M. But, I can see how that would be seen as pursuing. So,I wont. We will all be together this weekend at two soccer games and I could say something about this or just let it lay.

The "Isnt that so great!" line hurts deeply. I dont know if she really doesnt think that a line like that would hurt me or if she simply doesnt care.

"I'm so proud of us" Isnt it nice to know she is so happy with how we are "performing" in this separation.

FLTC, I'm not proud to be here longer than that you. I wish that I had some great results to show for the DBing that I have been doing, but I dont have a lot. Still, I plan to remain patient and hopeful.

Doesnt it sound like she is getting ready to file for divorce?

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Me-46;W-42
Together 23 yrs Married 16
S11 S8 S6
02/10/03 Her 1st affair
10/01/06 Sep Bomb
01/01/07 Sep Begins
03/09/07 Her 2nd affair

My Sitch