Hi Miss IC, thanx for making it through my thread. I know that when my H backed away from me, I was able to get in touch more with my sexuality. Unfortunately, he backed away into the arms of OW.
I would love to get to a place with my H that you and IC are now at...the fun, the play, the teasing...but right now, sex is serious business for us. Not all the time, mind you, but we have some major marital damage to overcome.
The last 2 nights I wanted to do the teasing thing, but my H was really insistent about following it through, so I went along. I don't want him feeling frozen out like he has in the past, but he doesn't quite get that if you build up to things, it can be even better. And personally, I like the feeling of having the tingles and not acting on it...that build desire in me.
The good news is that H and I are talking about all this, which is something we could never do in the past.
BTW, it is really good for all of us here to see two people get on the right track together. You were in tune with your H enough to find him here, and you share your H's sense of humor. You really are a good sport...now go beat him senseless, lol.
