My Wife wants out..still!!

[dadtotwo]

For me my biggest issue is the OM. My W started the phone calls the day she gave me the bomb. They continued for 7 weeks before she moved out. I have read so much on EA and why they happen and what the person "feels". I am so hurt by what she did and yet she contends that she did nothing wrong since they were only talking.

I am not able to process this well and it is a big part as to why I am angry. I feel she is pushing our D so she can free herself up for OM. I know you all will say that I can't control what she does. But she betrayed our vows and can justify her actions and has no accountability.

I really need to get as much fedback as possible. I am hurting and I need to figure out how to stop it.