Updating my thread...H and I are working on having more appetizers rather than going for the main course, and this is upping my appetite ( I seem to do much better with food analogies than animal ones). We both agree that we will never starve one another again. I know I still have lots of trauma to overcome, and I am not in that sexually confident place yet, but I am working on it.
Journey,
Appetizers are nice and usually tends to make the main course all the better
As for the sexually confident place...what is your husband like ? I know with IC that he was always the agressor and it kind of closed or boxed me in. Now it seems that he has changed this by backing away somewhat and it has allowed me to regain some of that sexual confidence or balance if you will. I don't know how one can get the other to change the way IC did, or if you can. I'm glad he did but maybe he can shed some light on what it was that prompted him to do so ??
And by the way, is there anyone on here that IC HAS NOT made some comments too?
To RJ "..On a serious note: Where are the pictures of you in the rain coat that GGB asked about "
