Hi Jeanette, I was going to post here yesterday, but there seemed to be so many bad sitch's. I had a good day at work and went out for drinks and dinner, so got back fairly late, and wanted to post a few cheering messages.
Received a text from friend saying yesterday evening 'I called on Wednesday to invite you for Christmas' WTF???? I haven't seen her in three or more years, and spoken maybe four times in that time . .
Anyway I sent her a text back telling her how extremely nice it was of her to think of me, but that I was spending Christmas with my children, and then going skiing!!
Does h think that if I go and stay with her at Christmas then the boys will all think 'Doh, what do we do? Oh I know we will visit dad?' This is seriously weird. I have NEVER spent Christmas with her. I don't want to spend Christmas with her. If I was on my own I would have a CHOICE of places.
Sorry - this is not bad compared with others right now. Just weird. I feel that h is trying to run my life and make me seem like a sad loser . . . It is OK, I know I am not. It is just stupid.
Sweetie...I understand what your saying. But even tho your sitch may not be as Bizzaro as some of the crazy shitz thats been going on lately, it doesn't mean that your not hurting as badly as anyone else on this board!!!
The woman is nuts......why would you want to spend the Holidays with her?? She must not know you very well eh?
I think your h is spouting crap to anyone who will listen to his sorry asz...
I'm just thankful that you can see what he is doing and not falling for anything foolish.
Weird is an understatement
{{HUGS}}
Jeanette
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Jeanette - she used to be a close friend, but she remarried, and we drifted apart. Then as I said, she didn't offer ANY support over this MLC thing, even though she had been through a divorce. That is OK - I am good at keeping friends, but this MLC certainly sorts them out! So now she is acting all concerned, when I am geting my life back together. I just wonder what h is telling her [No I dont actually want to know!!]
Good! Don't wonder what he is saying. It's not worth it. You know where you are in life right now. Dredging up all the old pain is not what you want to be doing.
Enjoy the weekend, enjoy your children.
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Jeanette - Am I in MLC or just detaching well - there is a bit of me that find it all completely absurd . . I mean h left to have a wonderful new life with OW, and two years on he is still contacting me.
Don't get me wrong - I love and miss the man I was married to, but I have a life now. I never call him. He is not part of my present life. . . . Why should he mind? Why does he find it necessary to contact people about me?
I still find it so hard to comprehend some of the stuff that goes on here. Someday I'm scared to read as it sickens me inside what people of capable of to hurt others. But then I think, what If I could possibly stop someone from making the same mistkes I made..
A.....it's not been a good week on here, and I think its mentally trying at times for us, as we have been there done that in alot of the newcomers sitch's. It takes us back to painful memories....yet were still drawn to help, and we are still trying to "GAL" ourselves.
I'm looking forward to this much needed vacation.
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Jeanette, you cannot imagine how much I am looking forward to meeting you in the flesh [as it were]. Sorry you and so many others have had such a bad week. I am not sure about me - I think I am actually punch drunk right now.
Saturday - I have to clean and tidy and do STUFF. Then I have my kids passing through in droves. Until about 6th November. Yay!!!!!
And work is good. I am doing a project that is so commercially sensitive I can't talk about it. The idea of this makes me giggle.
'So what did you do a work today?' 'Well i could tell you but then I would have to kill you'.
I am going to have an early night - watched a re-run of 'House' [sigh] Hugh Laurie is so gorgeous . . . .
