Hi Sandi, can you tell me how your moods were when you were in contact with the OM? I am asking b/c my W seems to be in and out of moods the last couple of days. She has been pretty nice and chatty the last couple of weeks, but last nite I could see it in her eyes that she was miserable. She worked late and I ordered take out from the local deli, and got her favorite. I wanted to take a walk last nite while it was still light, so I ate and went for my walk. When I came home my W was at the computer, and I saw that she ate what I had gotten her. She made a comment about how chilly the air was and I agreed with her. I then went and did my thing, and she got dressed and went out, saying we needed milk. She was gone for about a half hour, and i know that the store is only 4 blocks away. So maybe she was talking to the OM. When she came home she gave me a look, and I didnt say a word, and she went into the living room to read. This morning I had just gotten up and she was about to leave for work. I told her to have a good day and I would see her tonite, and she just looked and said see you tonite. Again I could see it in her eyes that she was miserable. What I would like to know is, if you were in contact with the OM, were you in a better mood, and if you couldnt contact him, were you miserable? I still think my W is in contact with OM, and I just wonder if something is going on, such as the OM pulling out of the R or my W just not being able to talk to him. Have a counseling this afternoon, and I hope to find out if my W talked about anything. Thanks for your help.
