ok, thanks Yoyo. He has me going on the merry go round, which I am getting off, to the point I'm not sure that I'm not be controlling. There is no reason he can't work. He can still work a full time job and continue doing his investments. They don't take up that much of his time. Having too much time on his hands is part of the problem. I am going to be setting up a budget and making sure that things are done. If he doesn't do something by December 1st then I will let him know that he has to pay the bills in his name.
In the meantime, I will be working on me, taking care of my kids, building my business and detaching from him.
Don't you think it's interesting that he was trying to find out who I received flowers from thru D8? lol. She tried to imitate his voice to me on how sweetly he said "oh, that's nice". Makes me laugh.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA