and when it gets down to it, it's not going to break me to pay one more month of his bills. Maybe by then, things will calm down if I don't allow myself to be drawn in.

Except, he keeps telling me that I am being controlling (which he has accused me of before) by not giving him the money. Am I? I'm not being spiteful. I just need to make sure the kids and I are provided for and he can provide for himself.

LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA