What do I do with her?

[Ohio_Mark]

So, I'm right to just focus on my own life right now and not worry about what's happening with her?

Yes yes yes yes yes. You are doing the right thing. Do not focus on her. She's gonna do what she's gonna do, and it's all out of your control anyway.

Good job with the weight loss. Based on what you have written, I have nothing more to add. You are doing a great job.