Good to hear you are doing well Chevelle. Your W, like so many WAS's on this forum sounds confused.
It is so difficult to keep your composure when they contact you. Tomorrow I will have to do just that as I will be meeting my WAW in order to get my name off her cell phone plan without having to change my # and incur fees that would be associated if I did not have her with me to sign the paperwork. Anyway, I am picking her up at her new residence (lives in a condo with her sister) and then will treat her to lunch (her birthday is next week). Hopefully, it will be enjoyable.
Anyway, I copied the article titled "while your spouse decides" from the main page of this site and read it from time-to-time. If you have not done so, give it a read. It is by some guy who decided to take the high road and remain best friends with his WAW. It seems as if you are also taking that road. I also try, but it is sometimes so difficult.
Hope you and everyone has a great weekend!
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM