Thanks Heim. Seems like so many of us are just at the end of our ropes for the time being.

I have been working on detachment since 6 weekes ago when he said he was "Single and dating" so I guess its just settled in. Going to make sure I have my "ducks back" on and go off into the world.

I will keep checking in with you all. Its funny but I have become so fond of the folks on here. Good friends even. Hopefully we will all make it to meet up one day.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.