Mike, Welcome to our group. You'll find some wonderful people here.
Right now I think you are doing all that you can do. It sounds like you are being kind without pursuing. I think all you can do it get out and enjoy yourself and pursue your interests. Whatever is going on with her will just have to run its course. In the meantime get out and GAL.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon